1-to-1 coaching
Personalised support for lasting change
- Strategies for cravings and triggers
- Accountability between sessions
- Building new habits and routines
- Mindset and lifestyle changes that last
Turning the page to a healthier you
Private, judgement-free coaching, whether you want to cut back or stop.


If any of this feels familiar, you're not alone, and you don't have to work it out by yourself.
“From the very first session, I felt heard and never judged… Thanks to her help, I’m in a much better place mentally, emotionally, and physically.”
How I can help
Whether you want to cut back, stop, or support someone you love, we'll work at a pace that feels right for you.
Personalised support for lasting change
Explore life with less alcohol, or none
Support for the people who care

About me
I'm a sober coach, and I help people change their relationship with alcohol, whether they want to cut back or stop completely.
I have a Psychology degree from City University of London. I then spent nearly 2 years at Via, a drug and alcohol service in Harrow, Greater London. I trained and worked as a Recovery Practitioner, then became an ETE (Education, Training & Employment) Practitioner, helping people in recovery back into education, training and work.
For 15 years, I've lived alongside addiction in my close family. I know how it feels to love someone who is struggling, and how much it helps when support comes with understanding rather than judgement.
That's a big part of why I do this work, and why I support family members and friends as well as people who want to change their own drinking.
How it works
A relaxed, confidential chat about where you are, what you'd like to change, and whether working together feels right. No pressure to commit.
Together we shape a plan around your goals and how often you'd like to meet.
We meet by video or phone, with support between sessions to help you keep going.
Pricing
Free
45 minutes, by video or phone. A relaxed, confidential chat with no obligation.
£35
per session
One-hour online sessions by video or phone.
“I genuinely cannot thank Thivya enough for the unwavering support, guidance, and understanding she has shown throughout my recovery journey. From the very first session, I felt heard and never judged – something that made an immense difference during a very vulnerable time in my life.
Thivya's approach is both compassionate and practical, offering me tools that actually work in real-life situations, not just theory. She's helped me build healthier habits, recognise triggers, and most importantly, believe in myself again. Each session feels like a step forward, and I always leave feeling more grounded and capable.
What stands out the most is her genuine care. It’s clear she is passionate about helping people, and that authenticity is incredibly powerful. Thanks to her help, I’m in a much better place mentally, emotionally, and physically.
If you’re struggling and considering support, I wholeheartedly recommend working with Thivya. It’s one of the best decisions I’ve made.”
“I was lucky to work alongside Thivya for nearly 2 years, and I personally witnessed the passion she has for recovery and how many lives she has already shaped. Most of them are now working with us as peer mentors… she planted the seed, and I am seeing it grow every day.”
“The first impact Thivya has on anyone is the welcoming, infectious, friendly smile followed by a hearty laugh to put you at ease. Thivya has empathy and compassion, and the ability to guide clients through the maze of their recovery journey, letting them know that recovery is a journey, not a destination.”
“Having worked alongside Thivya directly, I can confidently say she brings rare dedication and deep, practical knowledge to the sober coaching process. Her ability to connect with clients, navigate the complexities of recovery and guide individuals toward lasting success is truly exceptional.”
“I have had the privilege of knowing Thivya for 10 years and have always found her to be dependable, caring and hard-working. While living in London, Thivya worked at a drug and alcohol service where she quickly became a highly regarded member of staff. She demonstrates a real passion and dedication for helping others.”
FAQ
There's no single test, and you don't need a label to want to change. Some common signs: you drink more than you meant to, you've tried to cut back and found it hard, you look forward to drinking a lot, you need more to feel the same effect, or alcohol is affecting your sleep, mood, work or relationships. If any of that sounds familiar, it's worth a conversation. That's exactly what the free discovery call is for.
Yes, and this is really common. Many people hold down jobs, run families and seem completely “fine”, while privately worrying about how much they drink. You don't have to hit a crisis point to decide alcohol is taking more than it gives.
UK guidelines advise no more than 14 units a week, spread over three or more days, with some drink-free days. That's roughly six pints of average-strength beer or six medium glasses of wine. It's a limit, not a target. Lots of people find they feel better well below it.
No. Some people want to stop completely and some want to cut back. Some aren't sure yet. All of these are valid starting points. We'll work out what feels right for you, with no pressure and no judgement.
There's no one-size-fits-all answer, but trying to do it on willpower alone is one of the hardest ways. What helps most is understanding why you drink, having a practical plan for your triggers, and having someone in your corner to keep you accountable. That's what coaching gives you.
It's different for everyone. Many people find the first few weeks the hardest, and that new routines start to feel natural after a couple of months. Lasting change takes a little time, and you don't have to do it alone.
Cravings often peak and pass within 20–30 minutes. Practical things help: knowing your triggers, having a plan for “danger times” like evenings or weekends, keeping a go-to alcohol-free drink in, and having something to do with your hands and mind. In our sessions we'll build a toolkit that works for your life.
People often notice better sleep, more energy, a brighter mood, clearer skin, saving money and feeling more present with the people they love. Over time it also lowers the risk of serious health problems, including liver disease, heart disease and several cancers.
Not always. If you drink heavily every day, or you get shaking, sweating, anxiety, sickness or trouble sleeping when you go without a drink, please don't stop suddenly. Speak to your GP or local alcohol service first, because alcohol withdrawal can be dangerous. If you or someone else has a seizure, hallucinations or severe confusion after stopping, call 999.
I'm a coach, not a therapist or medical professional. Therapy often explores the past and treats mental health conditions. Coaching is practical and forward-looking: setting goals, building new habits and staying accountable. Coaching works well alongside therapy, your GP or groups like AA or SMART Recovery.
Yes. What you share stays between us. The only exception would be if I believed there was a serious risk to your safety or someone else's. Sessions are online from wherever you feel comfortable, so nobody needs to know unless you choose to tell them.
It's a relaxed, 45-minute chat by video or phone. We'll talk about where you are now, what you'd like to change, and how I work. There's no pressure and no obligation. It's simply a chance to see whether working together feels right for you.
Sessions are £35 each and last an hour. The discovery call beforehand is free.
Slip-ups are part of change for most people, not a sign of failure. If it happens, we look at what led to it, learn from it and adjust the plan. No judgement, ever.
Yes. I support family members and friends too. This might mean understanding what your loved one is going through, finding ways to help without enabling, having difficult conversations, and looking after yourself as well.
I've worked on the frontline of recovery in the UK, as a Recovery Practitioner and then an ETE (Education, Training & Employment) Practitioner at Via, a drug and alcohol service in Harrow, Greater London. I ran group courses, including training people to become peer mentors, and helped people rebuild their lives and get back into education, training and work. I have a Psychology degree from City University of London and 15 years of lived experience of addiction in my close family, so I understand this from both sides: professionally and personally.
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